{"id":23907,"date":"2018-12-14T18:28:41","date_gmt":"2018-12-14T18:28:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flashpacknew.wpengine.com\/?p=23907"},"modified":"2023-08-01T10:01:24","modified_gmt":"2023-08-01T09:01:24","slug":"men-travel-solo-group-adventure-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/solo\/travel\/men-travel-solo-group-adventure-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Men, this is why you should travel solo on a group adventure"},"content":{"rendered":"

Flashpacker Tony Stevens (below) recently joined our hiking adventure in Nepal<\/a>, and is now a firm convert of solo travel with a group of strangers. Here, he explains why other men like him should jump on the bandwagon too<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Men aren\u2019t as brave as we\u2019d have everyone believe (a poorly kept secret I know). We prefer the cosy safety blanket of our better half, or the known quantity of the lads we\u2019ve been mates with since Andy threw up peach vodka on poor Catherine at the year 10 school dance. Rarely do we blokes venture outside our comfort zone when it comes to exploring the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

Women don\u2019t seem to share the same hang-ups, and are far more likely to go all-in on a solo adventure. Those fearless Amazons make up two-thirds<\/a> of all solo travellers. Do they know something we don\u2019t?<\/span><\/p>\n

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For all our blustering bravado, us blokes are seemingly crippled by an inability to part with the familiar; or too anxious to risk looking \u2018uncool\u2019 if we\u2019re not surrounded by mates. News flash: nobody cares. \u201cOh my god look at that dude, what a loner\u201d \u2013 said no-one ever. But speaking from experience, solo travelling can be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life, and it doesn\u2019t have to be lonely.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s where group adventures come in. You get the best of both worlds\u00a0\u2013 the freedom of a solo experience, and the company of soon-to-be-friends without years of baggage and obligations. Here are eight great reasons why every man should ditch the friends and family, and book a group adventure with a band of strangers:<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll make Insta-friends<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Flashpackers<\/p>\n

No not Instagram followers (well possibly those too\u2026) Joining a merry band of solo travellers is an infallible way to meet fascinating people. I\u2019ll refrain from using the \u2018like-minded\u2019 clich\u00e9 and instead say that you\u2019ll meet a lolly scramble of people of all shapes and persuasions.<\/span><\/p>\n

Read more: Travel and the extraordinary power of friendship<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll become an ingredient in a delicious cauldron of diversity that bonds over a shared sense of adventure. You won\u2019t all have the same politics or go to the same CrossFit gym but the adversity and elation of travel will bring you together like nothing else can. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll gain a lot of couches to crash on<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I\u2019ve started a world map pinboard of all the friends I\u2019ve gained on my travels (or theirs), and more importantly, the growing number of international couches I have to crash on. <\/span><\/p>\n

Having friends in faraway places means you\u2019ve got cheap accommodation across the other side of the globe, and a buddy to show you the local sights. Including where to get the best midnight kebab after too many Snakebites.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll have someone to share in the glory (and the pain)<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Rainbow<\/p>\n

Hiking past mountains to the summit of a spectacular viewpoint or through the jungle to a secret waterfall can be a transcendent experience and it doesn\u2019t <\/span>need<\/span><\/i> to be shared. But it can make a glorious moment extra-special when you have someone next to you with the same \u201cTHIS IS AWESOME\u201d expression on their face.<\/span><\/p>\n

Read more: My 30s life\u00a0\u2013 why I’ve stopped looking for perfection<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Group adventures give you a brigade of wide-eyed travellers to be Alice (or Alex in this case) in Wonderland with. They also give you someone to pinch blister plasters from because you forgot a First Aid kit, or commiserate with over your sunburnt elbows.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll have built-in drinking buddies<\/strong><\/p>\n

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A few well-placed beers is still the best icebreaker for bringing a group of strangers together. If everyone\u2019s still cagey around each other after a day or two, then introduce a spot of alcohol into the cauldron and it won\u2019t be long before everyone is dancing around the fire together singing Kumbaya. <\/span><\/p>\n

If there\u2019s one thing I\u2019ve learned on group adventures it\u2019s that travellers love the hooch, to the extent where they will lug expired casks of red wine for days across Himalayan mountain trails…<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have a lot in common with the people<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I said I\u2019d avoid the \u2018like-minded\u2019 trope but dammit it\u2019s too tempting. The kind of people who are brave enough to travel solo <\/span>and<\/span><\/i> join a group of strangers for an out-of-your-comfort-zone experience are bound to have a lot in common. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re all travellers, you all have that thirst for discovery, you all share that pathological drive to see every square inch of this magical planet. You\u2019ll be able to chat for hours about all the countries people have visited and the adventures that have yet to be planned. It\u2019s invigorating!<\/span><\/p>\n

Relinquishing control is liberating<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Men like to be in control. I think most of us would admit that. What we might be a bit slower to acknowledge is that losing control sometimes turns us into anxious, surly toddlers. Okay maybe I\u2019m projecting here but I\u2019ve been around enough of my fellow blokes to know a lot us like to have at least one hand on the steering wheel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Read more: Cool destinations to put on your solo travel hit list<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

But letting go of control and rigidity can be liberating and can reduce your stress and anxiety. Joining a group adventure is the perfect way to throw caution to the wind and let someone else take the wheel. You\u2019ll have all the enjoyment of a life-changing lark, and none of the stress of planning it.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to hang out with anyone (if you don\u2019t want to)<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I\u2019ve talked at length about the amazing people you\u2019ll meet but you know what? You don\u2019t have to hang out with anyone if you don\u2019t feel like it. I find that hanging out with people constantly can be exhausting. On the flipside there\u2019s also an anxious inner monologue that tells me I\u2019m going to look uncool if I\u2019m not constantly being social. Relax. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s nice to have some mates when you feel the urge to interact with humans but equally you need your \u201cyou time\u201d. Don\u2019t feel like you have to be social when all you want to do is chill with a good book and a jazz playlist. No one is going to think you\u2019re a weirdo if you take some space, so you be you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can make the most of your freedom<\/strong><\/p>\n

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If you’re anything like me, you’ll find a lot of your friends (and adventure buddies of old) have settled down. They\u2019re too busy changing nappies and planning anniversary dinners to go on holiday, so what better excuse to cut loose and join a group of like-minded strangers? <\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the trip you\u2019ll be hooked on travel and the world will open up for you like spring flowers in bloom. Plus you\u2019ll have a brand new cadre of mates to explore it with.<\/span><\/p>\n

Images: Shutterstock, Tony Stevens, Flash Pack<\/em><\/p>\n

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Seize the day with these three great escapes<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Begin your group adventure here…<\/p>\n

Toast a new dawn in Colombia<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Climb the iconic Piedra del Pe\u00f1ol near Medell\u00edn and kayak across Guatap\u00e9 reservoir, with rum-tasting in Cartagena and beer and gunpowder in\u00a0Bogot\u00e1\u00a0(yes, really). Not forgetting a private day-long boat trip around the dreamy Rosario Islands.<\/p>\n

Take me there<\/a><\/p>\n

Hit your bucket list in winter Finland<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Snowmobiles<\/p>\n

Snowmobile across the vast Arctic horizon and watch out for the dancing Northern Lights, then hop on-board for a once-in-a-lifetime husky sleigh ride. Plus, cross-country skiing and lunch in a Lappish kota.<\/p>\n

Narnia inbound<\/a><\/p>\n

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Explore the wild frontiers of Oman<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Oman<\/p>\n

Take on a group hiking challenge across Wahiba Sands desert, with a night in a Bedouin camp, and dune-bashing down giant drifts. Then, wild swim your way through a series of spectacular emerald wadis with hidden caves and waterfalls.<\/p>\n

Don’t miss it<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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