{"id":14017,"date":"2019-03-17T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-17T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flashpack.preview.uk.com\/2018\/08\/31\/i-celebrated-my-30th-birthday-by-travelling-alone\/"},"modified":"2023-05-11T10:15:04","modified_gmt":"2023-05-11T09:15:04","slug":"celebrated-30th-birthday-travelling-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/solo\/travel\/celebrated-30th-birthday-travelling-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"I celebrated my 30th birthday by travelling alone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>When it came to plans for his 30th birthday, travelling alone wasn&#8217;t top of Matt Risley&#8217;s list. So imagine his surprise when he booked a solo trip to spend it on Easter Island.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s your 30th, 40th, or 100th (hey, we can dream), every big birthday has its own \u2018milestone\u2019 checklist.<\/p>\n<p>The faff of how big, small or left-field to make the celebrations? Check.<\/p>\n<p>Friends, family and frolleagues invite politics? Check.<\/p>\n<p>Existential dread about what you\u2019re doing, where you\u2019re going, and where you should be in your life by now? Double check.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BNElDIwh6T2\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:500px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BNElDIwh6T2\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\"> <\/p>\n<div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; 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border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/a> <\/p>\n<p style=\" margin:8px 0 0 0; padding:0 4px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BNElDIwh6T2\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#000; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none; word-wrap:break-word;\" target=\"_blank\">?What&#39;s that coming over the hill, is it a OHJEEBUSITSANELEPHANT?#instatravel #elephant #wildlife #wanderlust<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\">A post shared by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/spliggle\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px;\" target=\"_blank\"> Matt Risley<\/a> (@spliggle) on <time style=\" font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px;\" datetime=\"2016-11-21T12:05:04+00:00\">Nov 21, 2016 at 4:05am PST<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Faced with all the above, I decided to implement a hard NOPE on my own birthday proceedings, and instead booked a flight to South America for a solo adventure that led to one of the most random, inspiring and enjoyable birthdays of my life.<\/p>\n<h3>Travelling alone wasn&#8217;t on the agenda<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I never planned to spend my 30th birthday without my friends or family, but as I watched the sun set behind Easter Island\u2019s iconic, monolithic moai, and guffawed the dusk away drinking pisco sours with a bunch of strangers I\u2019d met mere hours before, I was pretty darn content with the fact I had.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-35654 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Easter-Island-1024x743-1.jpg\" alt=\"SUNSET ON EASTER ISLAND\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not to be all Ferris Bueller about it, but let\u2019s freeze frame, record scratch and rewind to how I found myself there in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019d recently broken up from a long-term relationship, my 30th birthday was looming, work had been incessantly bonkers, and I was just craving something a little more carpe diem-y than my life was offering.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bk3pQpLl29I\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\" style=\" background:#FFF; 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border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/a> <\/p>\n<p style=\" margin:8px 0 0 0; padding:0 4px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bk3pQpLl29I\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#000; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none; word-wrap:break-word;\" target=\"_blank\">#DrunkToiletSelfie #V2 #ReallyHopeThatsAHashtag<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\">A post shared by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/spliggle\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px;\" target=\"_blank\"> Matt Risley<\/a> (@spliggle) on <time style=\" font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px;\" datetime=\"2018-07-06T00:05:12+00:00\">Jul 5, 2018 at 5:05pm PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So when my Brazilian best mate announced she was going to get married in her hometown of Curitiba, it served as the catalytic call-to-arms to embrace a little change, strap on my backpack and plan a route through South America that zig-zagged through Brazil, Argentina, Chile and finally Rapa Nui (AKA Easter Island).<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Travelling alone: the perfect way to spend your birthday?<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While the friend-filled wedding kickstarted the trip, I\u2019d be primarily on my tod for the remainder of the travels. I\u2019d backpacked when I was much younger, but my life was in a very different place (let&#8217;s just say my social life had become a little more Waitrose than Wetherspoons), and so I was a tad apprehensive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-35661 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Matt-Pontas-1024x765-1.jpg\" alt=\"MAN IN HAMMOCK BY THE SEA\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Turns out, I needn\u2019t have worried. Between the buckets of caipirinhas, steaks the size of my head, and the open-armed, simpatico traveller mentality I\u2019d somehow forgotten about over time, it was life-affirmingly easy to meet people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So as the days ticked down to my 30th, I was only further emboldened with my life choices. Everyone I met was either walking a similar path and on a similarly positive wavelength, or envious that I was about to combine a personal celebration with a bucket list tick of a lifetime.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Read more: <a href=\"\/insights\/2017\/10\/10\/solo-travel-major-happiness-habit\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Solo travel fuels this major happiness habit<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As I sat waiting to board my flight to Rapa Nui, I flicked through the photos of all the interesting, hilarious people I\u2019d met over the preceding days, and realised I was exactly where I wanted to be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might sound a bit Oprah-y, but travelling is the perfect reminder that it doesn\u2019t matter how many mortgages, kids, or promotions your peers have \u2013 simply surround yourself with like-minded, positive, and open people, focus on the things that make you happy, and everything else will fall into place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-35668 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Easter-Island-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"EASTER ISLAND STATUE\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Exploring Easter Island was the perfect place to continue surfing that wave. ICYMI, the natively-named Isla de Pascua is one of the most remote islands in the world, sitting over 3,500km away from the nearest continental point, and over 2,000km from the nearest inhabited island (itself only boasting 50 residents).<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Read more: <a href=\"\/insights\/2017\/10\/11\/work-life-30s-career-crisis\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Less work, more life &#8211; tackling the mid-30s career crisis<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h3>Easter Island: not one of the more common places to go for a 30th birthday, but one of the best place to travel alone<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s also one of the most mysterious places on the planet, boasting over 1,000 intricately carved, enormous statues called moai, which date back to 1100 AD, and whose giant stone heads dot the landscape throughout the island. Many presume they\u2019re merely big boggly heads, but each statue extends far beneath the ground, and are, in a word, gargantuan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No-one knows how they made their way from the quarries in which they were carved to locations sometimes tens of kilometres away. Local Polynesian legend suggests that the island\u2019s original leader brought the statues to life and used mana (spiritual magic) to \u2018walk\u2019 (or float) them to their final resting places.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-35675 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Easter-island-3-961x1024-1.jpg\" alt=\"PEOPLE WALKING THROUGH A FIELD ON EASTER ISLAND\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Throw in a history of cannibalism, a fully-fledged \u2018Bird Man\u2019 cult, and a spherical stone named \u2018Te Pito Kura\u2019 (\u2018Navel of Light\u2019) which is said to concentrate supernatural energy, and which sends compasses and magnets crazy (including your smart phone\u2019s \u2013 which, yes, confusingly works off a satellite and not magnets), and it\u2019s as unique, memorable and (no Polynesian pun intended) magical a place as any to celebrate a big birthday.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Read more: <a href=\"https:\/\/staging.flashpack.com\/solo\/relationships\/the-truth-about-being-single-in-your-40s\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The truth about being single in your 40s<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h3>Celebrate your 30th without pressure<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019d purposely avoided talk of my birthday on the morning itself, and so spent the day with a small group I&#8217;d met that morning hiking over the island\u2019s rolling hills, listening to local legends about the moai, and taking more than a few moments to soak up each moment, and bask in the island\u2019s ethereal, distinctly <em>Lost<\/em>-ish mood.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As dusk fell, we started making our way back to our hotel, only to be stopped in our tracks by a harras (yes I had to Google that) of wild horses cantering along the cliff-edge.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-35682 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Easter-Island-2-1024x682-1.jpg\" alt=\"PEOPLE HAVING FUN IN FRONT OF EASTER ISLAND SUNSET\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With the ocean roaring, the sun setting, and horses grazing nearby, it is fair to say I wasn\u2019t thinking one iota about work, bills, exes, or the pressures of turning 30.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was as good a time as any to mention to my group mates about the birthday, and after I\u2019d emerged from the immediate swell of hugs, I found myself back at the hotel, playing cards, surrounded by pisco sours, a roaring fire, and literally laughing the night away with people I\u2019d never met before, and who I would probably never see again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who needs convention\u00a0when life can be so good without it?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Three amazing places where you could celebrate your birthday &#8211; or just places to travel alone<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>The peaks of Peru<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-34166 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Vinincunca-Rainbow-Mountain-1024x658-1.jpg\" alt=\"rainbow mountain peru\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Travelling alone can test you, but the rewards of meeting like-minded solo travellers are life-changing. This Peruvian holiday sees you stay in boutique Amazonian lodges and head out on nature-packed jungle treks. You also take on the awe-inspiring Rainbow Mountain.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/adventure-trips\/peak-of-peru\/\">Take me there<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Challenge yourself in Chile<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-34173 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/White-water-rafting-Chile-1024x658-1.jpg\" alt=\"group of people white water rafting in chile\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When it comes to places to go for a 30th birthday, a 13-day trip around Chile takes some beating. You&#8217;ll experience the Casablanca Hills, the Atacama desert and jaw-dropping glacial scenes in Patagonia. How many of your friends can say they hiked a glacier?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/adventure-trips\/best-of-chile\/\">My bags are packed<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Discover the secrets of Croatia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-34180 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Croatia-grouop-adventure-solo-travelers-1.jpg\" alt=\"group of people white water rafting in croatia\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Croatia is a marvellous place to travel alone &#8211; it&#8217;s impossible to get bored. Waterfall kayaking and wild swimming are just two of the high-adrenaline actitvities on this trip, but there\u2019s also time to chill out in \u2018the new St. Tropez\u2019 \u2013 the gorgeous town of Hvar.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/adventure-trips\/croatia\/\">I&#8217;m ready to go<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it came to plans for his 30th birthday, travelling alone wasn&#8217;t top of Matt&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":83135,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9033,9029],"tags":[574,575,107,210,333,464,433,443,434,1031,635,557,636,631,339,841,93,384],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14017"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14017"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14017\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83135"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandbox.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}